Haven’t written anything in a bit because I’ve just been caught up with work and felt incredibly tired. Had some confused moods and have some stuff to sort out in order to just make sure I enjoy life more. And I have to stop leaving my happiness in the hands of others, that’s just stupid.
Anyway, onto the article. Lonely people and pets. Not a good combination if you ask me. It’s a simple and effortless solution to their problem, but it just makes their problem bigger. Sure, you get unconditional love, but that’s the problem, it’s unconditional, and you could never get that from a real human being. Furthermore, the relatively limited needs of a pet get you used to someone who loves you regardless of what you do and what your mood is. And that’s not good because when you actually meet a real person with real needs, expectations and who doesn’t just mold to your every desire you believe they’re the abnormal one. Which makes you retreat more into your incorrect beliefs and end up being the cat person everyone avoids. Generally people who spend a lot of their time lonely end up being very closed to compromises that are needed for normal interactions.
PS: want more proof why pets are bad?
Point is try to be more open to others and try to think of what they want before just acting like you like to.
In other blog news I may be starting a podcast, or not. I also may change the tone of the discussions a bit as I’m trying to (how cliche) find myself.
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